What should i tell my children when they ask about their father.?

You and children must come first. When the get older be honest with them, but for right now you need to be as honest as you can with them with age. Remember if he never pays you one red dime the children can sue him for back child support when they turn 18. Remember that this is a tender ages for you children. He needs to be part of their lives, as long as he act response. Check your locate community for support ociations and talk with children doctors in how talk with the children and they will be great support of you.